Ford uses Extended Life Coolant, yes. But it is not DEX-COOL. DEX-COOL is a GM-only antifreeze with it's own proprietary formula containing Potassium 2-ethylhexanoate.
Ford extended life antifreeze is Yellow.
Now while MoPar extended life antifreeze is also Orange like DEX-COOL, it is NOT the same formula. It is more similar to what Ford uses. So nope, you can't go solely by color either.
Potassium 2-ethylhexanoate acts as a plasticizer which attacks certain plastics and silicone rubber. Both of which GM uses in their head gaskets as well as their intake manifolds because of water passages around the throttles. It led to lots and lots of failures. It's why you can still see a decent amount of old Cavaliers, Corvettes, and Silverados from the 90's on the road that had less vulnerable designs, but the vehicles that used the more susceptible to damage V6 engines are disappearing quickly.
If you have a GM vehicle, it's absolutely in your best interest to get the DEX-COOL out. If you have a vehicle that you need to top-off the coolant in, your best bet is just the universal stuff. NEVER EVER EVER use DEX-COOL in any car or truck that doesn't have it already inside! Which if it's not a GM product, you know for a fact you won't use it. GM does claim that DEX-COOL is *technicly* compatible with other coolants, but it's life is then shortened to only two years. But given that it doesn't play well with contamination, and even worse things like silicone rubber where the majority of us here have replaced the Water Pump hoses in the VOD with silicone rubber ones, you don't want to run the risk.