OK, I think I found out what I was doing wrong. I understood rotating tirades opposite from each other as rotating the driver side clockwise when you're looking at the inside of the wheel in the passenger side clockwise when you're looking at the inside of the wheel – what I was doing was screwing them both in tighter and exaggerating the tow. So I took the passenger side and rotate it did it twice as many times in the other direction which truly evened it out and adjusted the steering wheel position.
I'm going to put it down and drive around the block and see how it feels before I reposition the steering wheel. But check out the pictures below. This is how many threads I have visible on each side – I just want to make sure that looks normal because there are a lot of thread showing on the passenger side I want to make sure there's enough threads actually going into the tie rod end to hold it solid
thanks very much!