All joking aside, screw society, I'll hug a man if I want to. "Oh you're feeling down? Have a.... hand... shake...? Or, maybe nice words or sumthin?" is just stupidity. If my old co-worker can be the chic in his relationship (he cried during The Notebook while his girlfriend thought it was a stupid movie... not even joking), anything goes. Real men aren't pushovers to society's expectations.