Shep, very astute observation. I modified the safety cover (cap). Normally these caps hold a toggle switch in a specific position when closed. I routed out some material in the safety cover so that the toggle switch would remain in its neutral center position with the safety cover closed.
I hope I answered what you were asking. If not, here is a more detailed general description but I think you already know all this:
So the relay is a latching relay. In this version the coil terminals are [I] and [S]. If you momentarily put +12 at [I] and neg at [S] the relay will connect the battery. When the voltage is removed from the coil terminals, the relay remains in its last state (connected to the battery) because it is latching. No power is required to keep the battery connected. When you momentarily put neg at [I] and +12 at [S] (reverse the polarity) the relay will disconnect the battery. Again, the relay latches so no power is required to keep the battery disconnected.
The toggle switch I selected is an [ON(momentary) - OFF - ON(momentary)] switch, meaning that the toggle is spring loaded to return to the center position and you flip it up or down to provide a momentary electrical connection. The safety cover flips down over the toggle and prevents it from being "toggled" either direction. When you want to connect or disconnect, you lift up the safety shield (it's spring loaded and will stay up when lifted). You then have access to the switch to connect or disconnect the relay. When you're done you flip the safety shield back over the toggle to prevent any accidental activation.
Hope this helps.
Alan Shepard needed this for the explosive bolts.
Ron