[QUOTE=Ron;28239]See if the red-orange wire at the AC Panel relay has 12v with lights on.
Ron, If I understood you correctly, you wanted me to remove the relay and see if I have 12V when the lights are on. The answer is yes, on the pin marked by the arrow (can't tell what color wire that has). When the lights are off, no power there.
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While I was there, I got to remind myself what a big mess my relay panel is :-(
Someone was very creative with all the wiring!!! I'm going to have lots of questions for you guys! Here's a sampler:
Overview: DSCN6989.JPG
Left side - what the heck? DSCN6984.JPG
A black wire goes from here to the red terminal in the picture above: DSCN6985.JPG
And fuse box with two very melted connectors: DSCN6986.JPG
These have been bypassed with inline fuses.
Not pretty! I guess I have my work cut-out...