That is fails: I only write what I have discussed and observed with other owners with original RPM relays who this happened to, and to me after a 3 hour drive (fuel just cut off, came back on after original RPM relay cooled - I know owners who advise/give the original relay a whack to get it going again). The OEM relay heats up with use (touch it after a drive) as it is a mechanical relay in motion in continuous use, and as they are now 30 years old, they are having board delamination and solder failures and that's only going to get worse with time and usage. So, age + usage/heat (heat = premature death for electronics) + history tend indicate that it is a high failure rate part, as reliability is assessed in industry.
Once I put Dave's solid state version, you can feel after the same type of drive his version puts out much, much, less heat, and I have made that same 3+ hour trip (and back) w/o any RPM related issues.
That there is a work around, yes I agree with you I mentioned two others (jumpers and a spare). As you know, but others may not, jumpering the RPM relay's socket should be a temporary event only. The fact that a spare is a backup, again indicates to a part with a high potential for failure.
BTW: I have no interest in plugging Dave's product other than spreading the word that it is a great modern upgrade for our cars.