So after being unable to get the gray to work right(both in color and "feel"), I went with SEM Landau black and did a two-tone set-up and it turned out great in my opinion:
The new DMCH dash was painted Landau black to match the rest of the black parts as well. I really like it! The seat covers are also DMCH and I love them(only took me 10-11 hours to cover)! They are more of a charcoal than black, but still are a great addition to the interior. I will change the carpet to the late style light gray this fall.