If you go the lower wishbone route (versus triangulation), there are a couple of things you can do to accommodate the swaybar's range of motion in lieu of shoving the lower control arms back & forth:
1) Use rubber bushings rather than polyurethane (more squish)
2) Turn the crumple extension bushings around backwards (hinge towards the front) so the swaybar presses into an empty space
And of course the very shape of the swaybar (45 degree angles) provides a surprising amount of flex in the swaybar itself -- one of the reasons it is so unsuitable as backwards thrust arms. If you stand a swaybar on end and pull on it, you can deflect the poor thing a couple of inches using nothing more than skinny white man muscle power.
Lower wishbones alleviate the swaybar of any alignment function, returning it to a traditional body roll function.