Thanks for the sympathy :-)
It could definitely be bad gas. The car should be easy to start with the transmission in neutral and not touching the throttle at all - just turn the key and it should start (assuming everything else is set up and tuned properly). I know the sun visor has instructions for starting the car but I don't follow them. It actually seems harder to start if you follow them. I just sit down, push in the clutch, confirm neutral, and turn the key.
If it only starts if you mash the gas pedal while cranking, that sounds like poor mixture or poor fuel quality. You're allowing more air to go into the engine which is eventually getting you lucky enough to hit the right ratio of fuel vs air so it starts and keeps running.