Do I really have to explain how luxury vehicles have more sound insulation and dampening to isolate the occupants from road, wind and engine noise? Have you not noticed how lower end cars are louder inside? All I'm saying is you don't need as much of that with an EV. As for the gas engine, remember you are moving large lumps of metal back and forth with rapid direction changes. Along with that, you have thousands of explosions happening every minute. It's truly a miracle of modern engineering they run as smoothly as they do! But compared to a solid balanced lump of metal that's just spinning in a magnetic field, there's no comparison. All other things being equal, an EV will provide a much better experience.
I believe we are much further ahead then you realize in this technology. I've already disproven many of your outdated talking points. I agree that it's not for everyone yet. Especially if you can't L2 charge at home or work. DC fast charging only is not a great experience. Even if you can get it down to 5 minutes for 300 miles of range, it's still terrible compared to simply plugging in at home/work every day (I now loath taking my D to get gas). While I believe the DCQC infrastructure is now good enough to support current EV demands for the near future (it will obviously need to keep growing to keep up with demand), we really need to work on getting L2 infrastructure out there for those that can only street park or live in apartments. But if you are like me with a garage/driveway and have electrical service at your home, then an EV might be a more valid option then you realize! Just be honest with what you actually do and how often. Even if an EV won't somehow work for that road trip you take once/twice a year or haul that occasional load from Home Depot, you can still get a rental for that and then enjoy all the benefits of an EV for your daily driving needs.